When Curiosity Meets Compassion: Estephan’s First Yes
At twenty, Estephan didn’t feel lost so much as unfinished. College had given him language—theories, labels, discourse—but very little room to feel without judgment. He knew he was bi-curious, not as a trend or rebellion, but as a quiet, persistent hum in his body that grew louder whenever he tried to ignore it . What unsettled him wasn’t desire itself. It was the weight attached to it. In locker rooms and group chats, masculinity was treated like a brittle object—one wrong move and it shattered . Submission, especially, was framed as failure. Enjoyment came with footnotes. Curiosity required disclaimers. And anal virginity? That wasn’t even discussed; it was mocked, politicized, or erased entirely. So when Estephan sought guidance, he wasn’t looking for permission to have sex. He was looking for permission to be himself. That’s where Oval Rosado Discrete Surrogate Coaching entered his life—and where Dr. Slipzitin’s approach proved different from anything Estephan had encoun...